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The Rise of Humanist Funerals No Comments

A funeral, without a doubt, is the most personal event that a person can be associated with. While tradition once meant that people came to expect a religious service, this is no longer the case. With more people choosing not to follow a particular faith, humanist funerals are on the rise and have even recently been featured in the long running British soap opera, Coronation Street. What are humanist funerals? A humanist funeral is an alternative to having a religious or faith-based funeral ceremony. Designed to be meaningful and personal to the deceased…

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Celebrate Your Life Your Way: Planning Your Own Funeral No Comments

Funerals are often a taboo subject; people feel unable to talk about the subject of death yet it is however one of the certainties of life. It’s easy to avoid writing a will and understandably hard to plan your own funeral, but for those who would like some control after death it can be very worthwhile. Recognizing that death is a part of life and planning your own funeral can be a liberating experience too. It may also help your family to sort your affairs out and avoid having to go through the often stressful funeral planning…

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The Steps to Acknowledging Life’s Biggest Finances No Comments

As people meander their way through life, obligations are aplenty and people handle them in unique ways. Some are tough, some are fun and several just simply have to be taken care of. Every person and every family has situations that pose a challenge in their own right, and a nearly universal belief is that any obstacle or duty in life is easier to handle when people are better prepared. Certain people get lucky and avoid major health problems. Others are fortunate and avoid marital challenges or happiness issues…

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Your Guide To Putting Funeral Plans In Place No Comments

Unfortunately, there’s little way to avoid the pain of losing a loved one, but if you are suffering from a bereavement taking control of the funeral plans can give you a purpose that will help guide you through this difficult time. Organising a fitting funeral is a wonderful way to honour the departed and give them the send-off they deserve. Arranging a funeral for a loved one is not an everyday occurrence, it can be a daunting prospect which grief only making it more difficult. However, with the right funeral director…

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Entering and Exiting: Preparing for End of Life No Comments

Entering and exiting life certainly has a transformative effect. Both require enormous internal preparation. When a birth is expected, a family’s priority is dominated by the coming arrival. The new family must adjust emotionally, spiritually and financially for the additional responsibilities. Even though a new arrival might cramp the pocket book with the purchase of a crib, clothes, diapers and all the other necessary paraphernalia, it is gleefully accepted. On the other hand…

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What Dying Can Teach Us About Saving the World No Comments

Life has a way of leading us to unexpected places. As for me, back when I was a hospice physician making house calls to care for the dying patients on our service I never dreamed I would one day write a book about that experience. I didn’t know that my own life would be profoundly changed by listening to the stories of those patients and learning from them the lessons that were being revealed as they drew closer and closer to death. But that is exactly what happened…

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Dear Mary: Dividing Up the Ashes No Comments

Dear Mary, My mom just passed the Wednesday before Easter and now we are having problems with a brother who showed up after 35 years of absence. He wants the ashes from mom. We are going to take her back to you home where the rest of the family is. Mom wanted us to the two daughters to do this. She also informed us not to let the boys (our brothers) to not do this. She has tried over the years to call , write letters to the one brother that has been gone but there has never been a response. He has started to cause problems within the family by saying hurtful things…

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